Why do we form intense, one-sided bonds with people we've never met? From favourite podcasters and social media influencers to beloved fictional characters, parasocial relationships are a defining feature of modern life – but what do these seemingly non-reciprocal connections truly reveal about our need for connection? In today’s episode, we explore the psychology of parasocial relationships: why our brains are wired for these intimate-at-a-distance bonds, and how they play a surprisingly significant role, especially in our twenties.

We explore:

Characteristics of parasocial relationships
Why our ancient brains are predisposed to form these connections
The parasocial relationships spectrum, from casual engagement to pathological obsession
The profound positive benefits of companionship and role modelling
When parasocial relationships become imbalanced
How to cultivate healthy engagement with online personalities

Whether you feel like you're best friends with a YouTuber or just curious about the invisible ties that bind us to media figures, this episode is for you.

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