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Sep 1
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Rekindling Connection & Desire in Your R...

Jeremy Lipkowitz
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🔹 Want personalized support in your recovery? Book a FREE discovery call with Jeremy to see if coaching is right for you at JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro 🔹 

In this episode of Unhooked, I'm joined by Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt. Allana shares powerful insights into building and maintaining deep emotional and physical intimacy within relationships. The conversation covers strategies for overcoming challenges such as disconnection, rejection, and past trauma. Allana discusses the importance of vulnerability, slowing down, and establishing safe communication practices like the dyad technique. The episode also touches on the psychological benefits of psychedelic somatic integration for reconnecting with one's emotions and partner. Tune in for transformative advice on rekindling passion and building a stronger, more connected relationship.

Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/


Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction

01:20 Personal Stories and Experiences

04:02 The Concept of Intimacy

05:35 Challenges in Relationships

08:59 Understanding and Expressing Emotions

13:50 The Power of Vulnerability

23:41 Practical Exercises for Couples

29:06 Healing Relationships Through Empathy

29:34 From Soulmates to Wholemates

30:04 The Power of Dyad Practices

31:45 Weekly Heart-to-Heart Conversations

33:27 Common Mistakes in Rekindling Intimacy

34:39 Step-by-Step Intimacy Rituals

39:55 Maintaining Desire in Long-Term Relationships

48:13 The Journey from Hopelessness to Hope

54:40 Connecting with Allana Pratt


Connect with Allana Pratt

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt/
🌍 Website: https://allanapratt.com/

Want to work with Allana? Visit Www.AllanaPratt.com/connect and use the scholarship code READYNOW 

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