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Jun 2025
1h 29m

Why Modern Life Doesn't Make Us Happy, a...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Life today is safer and more comfortable than ever before, so why do so many people feel unhappy, lonely, and anxious? Forrest talks with evolutionary psychologist Dr. William von Hippel about this paradox in light of our two core needs: autonomy and connection. He argues that modern life has pushed us too far in the direction of autonomy, and that we need t ... Show More
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