Send us Fan Mail What if you could transform jealousy from a shameful reaction into a powerful tool for relationship growth and self mastery? This episode dives into a listener question about navigating jealousy after infidelity and feeling shame about emotional outbursts. Rather than viewing jealousy as problematic, we explore a revolutionary perspective: ... Show More
Jul 22
Ep 199: What It Really Takes to Trust in Relationships
Send us Fan MailSomething shifts when you stop asking, “Who can I trust?” and start asking, “Can I trust something inside me that's always here – no matter what's going on around me?” In this episode, I'm bringing you into a recent workshop inside ERA (the Embodied Relationship A ... Show More
1h 17m
Jun 4
Ep 198: Why Attractive People Feel Like a Threat in Relationships
Send us Fan MailIf attractive people around your partner instantly trigger insecurity, comparison, or anxiety, this episode is for you.We'll explore why this happens, what your "scanner part" is actually trying to protect, and how old wounds can make attractiveness feel threateni ... Show More
49m 22s
Mar 2026
Ep 197: After 20 Years of Inner Work, 3 Months in ERA Changed Everything — Emerson’s Story
Send us Fan MailAfter 20 years of trying to fix herself, Emerson had reached a point where she believed nothing would truly change. The anxiety, the hypervigilance, the patterns in relationships — they felt too deep, too ingrained.In this conversation, she shares what shifted whe ... Show More
1h 14m
Jul 2023
#92: How to Manage Jealousy in Relationships
<p>Unless you're a true outlier, there's a pretty good chance you've had some experience with jealousy. And yet, as universal as it is, jealousy is possibly one of the most maligned emotions we can have. <br/><br/>In today's episode, join me on a journey to u ... Show More
21 m
Dec 2022
49: 3 tips to overcome jealousy
In this episode, I cover what causes jealousy in partnership, why it isn't something to get rid of, and how to transform it into a gift rather than a hindrance to your relationship. Both Feet In is my community where you can access my core relationship anxiety relief curriculum, ... Show More
50m 28s
Oct 2021
How To Reframe Jealousy In Relationships
Rage, fear, possessiveness, sadness or all of the above — we all experience romantic jealousy differently, but the common denominator is the feeling of that inner alarm bell going off telling you you're going to lose your special someone.When mishandled, feelings of jealousy can ... Show More
23m 29s
Mar 2021
Ep. 136 - EXPLAINED Envy, Jealousy & Expansion
<p>Welcome to a special EXPLAINED episode where we are diving deep into the themes of Jealousy, Envy, and Expansion! Lacy and Jessica are joined by Dr. Tara to discuss the energetics and psychology behind these themes and how to harness that energy into expansion.</p><p>Jealousy ... Show More
1h 6m
May 2022
157. Rewind episode: Jealousy, Self-comparison, + Codependency
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Today we're going to talk about something that most people would deny- the fact that we all get jealous. But what if instead of shoving it down in a well of shame, we instead took a moment to process it?</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 4 ... Show More
26m 5s
Feb 2023
Episode 164: How To Deal With Jealousy
<p>There’s an interesting paradox in modern relationships where, if there’s too much jealousy, that can cause a lot of problems. At the same time, though, if there isn’t enough jealousy, that can also lead to problems. So let’s talk about this complicated emotion. In ... Show More
32m 5s