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May 2024
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57. Overcoming Jealousy & Insecurity in ...

Kristen Odegaard
About this episode

Jealousy is an emotion pushed away and not often discussed.

But, its real. It doesn't feel good. It can strain or ruin relationships - so we dive into how to overcome it, build confidence and actually improve your relationships.

This episode includes:

The differences between envy and jealousy

Signals of jealousy (Protection, Projection & Competion)

Building trust in partnerships

Not reacting from fear

Boundaries

Shanenn Bryant, Relationship Confidence Coach, is the founder and CEO of Top Self, a self-development company offering coaching, courses, and community to those with feelings of low-self-worth, insecurity, and jealousy in their relationship.    As a relationship confidence expert, and the host of the Top Self podcast, Shanenn has inspired thousands to break up with bogus beliefs, crack the control code, and overhaul their insecure habits.  https://www.topself.com/


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