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Mar 2021
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Ep. 136 - EXPLAINED Envy, Jealousy & Exp...

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About this episode

Welcome to a special EXPLAINED episode where we are diving deep into the themes of Jealousy, Envy, and Expansion! Lacy and Jessica are joined by Dr. Tara to discuss the energetics and psychology behind these themes and how to harness that energy into expansion.

Jealousy and envy are feelings we all struggle with, and this episode will help you reframe that energy to find inspiration and expansion on your manifestation journey! They also touch on evolutionary roots, sibling rivalry, consciousness, and more. Enjoy!

Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

In This Episode We Talk About:

  • The difference between jealousy and envy
  • Energetics of each, what they reveal, and how to reframe them for expansion
  • Personal stories from Lacy, Jessica, and Dr. Tara about jealousy and envy
  • The evolutionary reasoning behind jealousy and how it helped us survive
  • Psychology of sibling rivalry and twin rivalry!
  • The agricultural revolution and how it shapes our relationships today
  • Exploring consciousness
  • The link between jealousy, envy, and manifestation
  • Finding expanders from those that trigger your jealousy or envy
  • The brain activity that happens when you’re jealous
  • Exercises for harnessing that energy into inspiration

NEW Envy & Jealousy DI

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Envy Exercise: Way to Process Envy: 

  • Take out your journal and write down the reason you’re feeling envious of this person.
  • What is it that’s making you feel so bad? Your first answer might not be the root, so keep digging.
  • What do they have that you want?
  • List out the reasons why you feel you can’t achieve what they have - these are your blocks.
  • List out how you relate to this person and what you have in common.
  • Remind yourself that this person is actually here to inspire you and expand your subconscious to believe that what you want is possible.
  • Choose a DI to do the subconscious work to reprogram the Blocks from the question above.

 

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