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Jun 2025
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GIRL TALK Q&A: toxic friends, dating dra...

Tam Kaur
About this episode

ITS THAT TIME AGAIN GIRLIES! I'm answering all of your juicy dilemmas and sharing real advice you can actually use. from calling out red flags in relationships, dealing with toxic friendships, and setting boundaries, to healing your self-esteem, building confidence, and learning how to stop comparing yourself to others. we’re also talking about normalizing your wins, trusting your timeline, and how to stay focused on your own growth 💖 grab a drink and let’s get into it!


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
00:00 Introduction
00:54 Dating Dilemmas: Identifying Red Flags and Breaking Cycles
10:42 Friendship Dilemmas: Setting Standards and Identifying Envy
17:16 Being Your Best Self: Achieving Goals and Self-Love
26:02 Final Thoughts


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*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder !

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