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Jan 2023
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54. let's talk relationships.. insecurit...

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
Hi ladiesssss! Todays episode we get REAL and talk about relationships..

- Attachement styles, specifically anxious attachments
- How to date outside of dating apps
- How to move on from a toxic situation/person
- When to know if you've found "the one"
- What to do when you're celibate/not participating in hook up culture with high libdo
- Understanding self pleasure & how to have your own practice
- How to stop second guessing someones love for you
- What to do when someone rejects you & doesn't choose you
- Tips on how to start having deep, meaningful relationships
- How to stay clear of toxic exes & how to know if you're the toxic one
AND MORE 🦋

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