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Jun 2025
35m 8s

The Psychology Behind Why You Keep Going...

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
About this episode
Have you ever found yourself giving someone yet another chance—even though deep down, you know they’re not right for you? In this episode, Jillian dives into the emotional patterns and deeper psychological reasons behind why we keep returning to unhealthy relationships. Using a powerful real-life story, she explores how unmet needs, emotional voids, and fami ... Show More
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