Ever feel like dating is one giant guessing game? You meet a guy, everything’s great—until suddenly, he's pulling away. Or maybe you keep hearing, "You're amazing, but I just don't feel the spark."
What the hell is actually going on in their heads?
In this episode, I sit down with Connell Barrett, a men’s dating coach who’s been in the trenches himself. We ... Show More
May 8
202: The Ick, Shadow Work, And Why You're Still Single
If you keep getting the ick with every person you date, the problem might not actually be them. In this episode, Sabrina unpacks shadow work and the ick, breaking down how the parts of yourself you rejected long ago are running your dating life, your relationships, and the trigge ... Show More
37m 57s
May 1
201: This Is What Happens When You Finally Choose Yourself
In this raw birthday episode, Sabrina gets honest about the hidden cost of personal growth and what nobody warns you about when you actually start doing the work. From losing friends who only knew the old version of you, to grieving the identity you outgrew on purpose, to realizi ... Show More
33m 31s
Apr 24
200: Navigating Insecurities, Self-Worth And Believing In Yourself
For the 200th episode, Sabrina tackles the question she gets asked more than anything: how do you actually believe you're enough? This one breaks down where insecurity really comes from, why "just have more confidence" is bullshit advice, and what social psychologist Mark Leary's ... Show More
37m 54s
Oct 2025
205. Truths About Love We Don't Like Hearing (But Need To) w/ Jillian Turecki
In this episode, I sit down with author and relationship coach Jillian Turecki to talk about the hard truths of love, why it really begins with you, and what changes when you stop outsourcing certainty and start meeting your own needs. We get into the “six human needs” as a simpl ... Show More
45m 54s
Oct 2025
How to Actually Manifest Your Soulmate
Jillian teaches how to truly manifest a soulmate—without the “woo.” She shares a proven step-by-step method that has helped thousands of people attract emotionally healthy, aligned relationships—complete with simple daily practices to calm your system, raise your standards, and d ... Show More
24m 3s
Nov 2025
Unmet Needs vs. Unrealistic Standards: How to Know the Difference
Jillian dives into one of the most confusing parts of love—telling the difference between an unmet need and an unrealistic expectation. She breaks down how projection, attachment, and self-awareness shape what we ask for in relationships, and what happens when those needs go unan ... Show More
48m 22s
Aug 2025
How to Date with Self-Worth and Confidence
Dating can stir up all kinds of insecurities, but it doesn’t have to cost you your self-worth. In this episode, Jillian walks you through seven practical steps to help you date with confidence, protect your heart, and stay rooted in your values. You’ll learn how to spot tests tha ... Show More
40m 3s
Mar 2025
Masculine and Feminine Energies Explained with Dené Logan
Today, Jillian welcomes couples therapist and author Dené Logan to explore how true healing in relationships begins within. Drawing from her new book, Sovereign Love: A Guide to Healing Relationships by Reclaiming the Masculine and Feminine Within, Dené shares powerful insights o ... Show More
1h 6m
Aug 2025
Ghosting, Gaslighting, and Gay Bars (w/ Roz Hernandez)
<p>For <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rozhernandez/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Roz Hernandez</a>, dating as a sober, trans woman comedian is a trifecta of difficulty - and finding love hasn’t been easy. She tells Nicole about going to 4 different Etsy psychics ... Show More
1h 8m
Jan 2025
Why Dating Feels IMPOSSIBLE: Physical Attraction, Can’t Commit & Why You’re Single! Kait and JJ
On today’s episode we have Christian dating coaches, Kait and JJ, on to discuss the downfall of men in our society, does attraction in relationships matter, why is divorce on the rise, and what Does God want for godly relationships? Thanks for listening! We’ll see you back here F ... Show More
1h 6m
Sep 2025
Why I Broke Up With a Good Person
Breaking up is never easy—especially when the person you’re leaving isn’t toxic, cruel, or a bad partner, but simply not the right match. In this episode, Jillian shares her personal story of ending a relationship with a “good person” and the powerful lessons she learned about va ... Show More
30m 48s