Dive into how often people use indirect or protective strategies—like assuming or demanding—when trying to get their relational needs met, and why making needs explicit through vulnerability is both challenging and essential. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren emphasize that even though vulnerable communication is uncomfortable and risky, it’s the most effective way ... Show More
Apr 2023
How To Talk About Your Insecurities In A Relationship | Rewind
<p>Have you ever had an insecurity, a jealousy, or something that hurt you or made you feel threatened, but you didn’t know the right way to bring it up? Of course you have. We all have. Maybe you’re feeling that right now. It can be terrifying, can’t it? We are told vulnera ... Show More
10m 42s
Jul 2025
She Doesn't Want Your Vulnerability, She Wants This
Talking points: relationshipsSo many men fall into a very specific (and usually confusing) trap. They're asked to "be more vulnerable", they go way too far with it, and it ends up pushing the partner into the mother/caregiver/therapist role way too often.I've talked about this be ... Show More
14m 16s
Jun 2022
How To Build Rapport Quickly With Anyone | Toolbox
In today’s episode, we cover building high value relationships with AJ & Johnny.
Building high value relationships requires vulnerability, but what does it mean to be vulnerable, how do you know when to be vulnerable, and what are some simple strategies you can use to be more ef ... Show More
53m 48s