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May 2025
33m 52s

Never Chase Anyone: You Can't Convince S...

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
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Trying to convince someone to love you is one of the most painful patterns to get stuck in—and it can quietly destroy your mental health. In this episode, Jillian goes deep on the emotional toll of chasing love that isn’t mutual. She breaks down why connection isn’t enough, what real commitment looks like, and why settling for someone who’s one foot in and o ... Show More
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