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Sep 2024
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Esther Perel: How to Bring The Spark Bac...

Jillian Turecki | QCODE
About this episode

Jillian welcomes Esther Perel, a world-renowned psychotherapist, relationship expert, speaker, and bestselling author. In this episode, she explains the difference between erotic intelligence and emotional intelligence, sexuality vs eroticism, and the nuance art of desire in both committed relationships and beyond. She explains how to sustain desire and attraction in a long-term relationship as well as the deeper roots of what causes friction between a couple. Please enjoy this powerful conversation! 


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