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May 11
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trauma bonding & problematic lovers: wha...

SEPHY AND WING
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podmothers sephy & wing enter the chat: spiralling on transactional dynamics in relationships, trauma cycles & attachment styles, resentment, desire, & 'perfect harmony'. ✷

see more ✷ youtube @sephyandwing ✷ instagram @sephyandwing ✷ tiktok @sephyandwing

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