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May 2025
21m 43s

10 tips and habits to MASTER your mental...

Tam Kaur
About this episode

trying to prioritize your mental health without getting overwhelmed? in this video, i’m breaking down 10 simple habits and tips that can help you feel more grounded, balanced, and in control. from journaling and setting boundaries to creating joy lists and resetting your mindset—it’s all about building a routine that actually supports your well-being.


♡ WHAT'S IN THIS EPISODE:

  • 00:00 Introduction: Personal Mental Health Struggles and Realization
  • 01:49 Understanding Mental Health
  • 02:33 Creating a Mental Health Routine
  • 05:09 The Role of the Environment on Mental Health
  • 08:05 Productivity and Organization
  • 09:53 Overcoming Negative Feelings and Rewiring Your Mind
  • 11:12 Slow Morning Routine
  • 12:47 Protecting Your Peace and Setting Boundaries
  • 13:37 Breaking from Toxic Familiarity
  • 15:48 Mind Mirrors Who You Are, Not What You Want
  • 16:33 Creating a Joy List
  • 18:29 Auditing Your Mind
  • 20:31 Conclusion


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