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May 4
1h 4m

How to Stop Chasing Unavailable Men and ...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

 

  • Why the archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love

  • The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother

  • Why rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen

  • How the feminine archetypes impact dating and relationships

  • Why we choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us

  • Mel’s best advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone

 

Bio

 

Mel Wells is a world-renowned 7-figure love and leadership mentor for successful female entrepreneurs. She empowers women to create the love lives and intimacy they deeply crave by fully understanding and embodying their feminine power, unlocking their wild magnetism and irresistible energy. Mel also mentors ambitious, spiritually driven women to scale their businesses by harnessing the power of their feminine energy and unique superpowers. Through her work, Mel helps women thrive in both love and leadership, embodying their most authentic and radiant selves.

 

Timestamps

 

00:01:33 - Guest introduction

00:04:29 - The archetype of successful women is often unsuccessful in love

00:07:34 - Why we think of feminine energy as less powerful

00:08:04 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:09:56 - Mel shares about the relationship that sent her into a deep portal of reflection

00:13:22 - If his energy isn’t pursuing you, he’s disqualified

00:16:32 - Discover MOOD™ Sex Magic

00:17:16 - Mel and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC

00:20:25 - Men go after what they want

00:21:38 - If he’s not moving towards you, it’s not your job to figure it out

00:25:47 - Rewiring ourselves for healthy love means being available to be chosen

00:26:02 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples

00:28:34 - We choose the love that feels comfortable to us, even if it hurts us

00:31:40 - Mel explains the feminine archetypes and how they impact dating

00:35:33 - Why it’s important to listen deeply to your universal path

00:39:23 - Fall in love with your body and unlock outrageous orgasms with Obliss

00:43:04 - Finding delight in wherever you are on your dating journey

00:46:40 - Never discount the possibility of being fully chosen at every stage in your life

00:48:19 - You can be a female entrepreneur AND be filled with life and magic

00:51:10 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:54:18 - When you mother your partner, he will show up as a child

00:54:54 - The hardest thing about keeping things sexy as a mother

00:57:46 - Mel’s advice for anyone who is worried about dying alone

01:00:47 - A practice for switching from the Huntress archetype to the Queen

01:02:01 - A practice for shifting from the Mother archetype to the Lover

01:03:27 - Conclusion

 

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