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Feb 2025
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The 5 Things Every Woman Must Do to Crea...

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Fan Favorite: This episode originally aired on June 19, 2022. What up, homies! It's your girl Lisa Bilyeu, and welcome back to the Women of Impact podcast, where we dive deep and come out stronger. Today, I'm absolutely pumped to bring you an episode with none other than my wonderful hubby, Tom Bilyeu!


We're filling in the blanks on "Lisa_the 5 things every woman must do," but plot twist, it's Tom who’s unraveling the deep layers of our dreams, the stories we tell ourselves, and all those raw emotions! Imagine pursuing dreams not just to achieve them, but to let them guide you to places you didn’t know existed.


Tom walks us through how to balance those overwhelming moments of imposter syndrome with tangible tools. So ladies, lean in because there's so much magic in the “high five habit” that Mel brings up – a bump to self-love and self-trust that’ll knock your socks off!


And of course, we’re unpacking those powerful pillars of life: from the dynamics in our spaces, relationships, and habits, to managing that internal chatter that does NOT own your life. Because let's face it, those sneaky little day-to-day choices pile up to create our reality. Yes, girl, WE are making our own dreams!


So buckle up and let's embrace the journey to becoming unshakeable and impactful women together. Remember, if this episode lights you up, do the things – rate, review, and subscribe. Sharing is caring, so pass it along to every powerhouse you know! Let’s keep raising the tide for all the brilliant women out there.


SHOWNOTES

00:00 The Power of Emotional Stories

00:01:00 Dreams as Life's Map

00:01:52 Understanding the Zeigarnik Effect

00:03:13 Overcoming Initial Hurdles

00:03:52 The “High Five Habit” Unpacked

00:05:38 Mirror Moments of Self-Reflection

00:09:45 Rewriting Our Internal Dialogue

00:18:28 Health as a Pillar of Life

00:21:03 Building Meaningful Relationships

00:24:00 Decluttering for a Focused Mind

00:26:38 Addressing Financial Excuses

00:29:38 Preparing for Opportunities

00:32:16 Habits and Identity Transformation

00:36:07 Navigating Financial Dynamics in Relationships

00:41:12 Debunking the Victim Mindset

00:45:27 Pain as a Path to Growth

00:51:00 Reworking Limiting Beliefs


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