Today, John explores why people are drawn to unhealthy relationships and how to break the cycle. He emphasizes the role of upbringing, the importance of self-awareness, the need for a corrective love experience to build healthier connections, and more.
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Today
Sh*t You Wouldn’t Ask Your Therapist | Heartbreak Hurts Here's Why
In today’s episode, John Kim takes on your raw, unfiltered questions about love — from the heartbreak of seeing an ex with someone new, to the chaos of dating in your 40s, to navigating loneliness, trauma, and self-worth. It’s the real talk you’ve been craving: messy, honest, and ... Show More
23m 11s
Yesterday
When You Shut the Door on Miracles
What if it’s not the big traumas that hold us back, but the tiny cracks in how we think each day? In this episode, John Kim and Vanessa unpack how we unconsciously block miracles - through catastrophizing, over-stimulation, and self-protection - and how small shifts in mindset ca ... Show More
20m 34s
Aug 25
Still Stuck on Your Ex | This is Why
Closure isn’t a door you wait to have slammed shut - it’s a bridge you build. In this episode, licensed therapist John Kim breaks the biggest “closure” myths and shows you how to move forward without an apology, a perfect explanation, or one last text. If you’ve felt stuck in rel ... Show More
15m 49s
Sep 2024
3326: The Building Mindset by Tynan on New Habit Formation & Lifestyle Design
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 3326:Tynan reflects on the importance of adopting a "builder" mindset over an "allocator" mindset. He argues that success an ... Show More
10m 24s
Jul 2024
Age Gaps, Big D*ck Energy, and Short Shorts
Today, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is. Find out more about John HERE ... Show More
1h 1m
Sep 2024
2706: Why Having to Start Over AGAIN Is Great by Steve Kamb of Nerd Fitness on Resiliency & Fitness Motivation
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 2706:Steve Kamb of NerdFitness.com explores why starting over after setbacks can be a powerful tool in personal development. ... Show More
12m 17s
Aug 6
How To Handle Dilemmas, Drift, Indecision, and Difficult People | Gretchen Rubin
An avalanche of practical advice and brief (but powerful) life lessons. Gretchen Rubin is a New York Times bestselling author and happiness expert who explores human nature and habits. She’s a highly acclaimed writer, host of the podcast Happier with Gretchen Rubin and the founde ... Show More
1h 4m
Nov 2024
Transforming Mistakes Into Growth Moments, with Kier Gaines
Licensed therapist Kier Gaines explains the importance of accountability and self-forgiveness. He shares how being accountable for your actions can lead to personal growth, healthier relationships, and a pathway to self-forgiveness, while debunking the myth that one mistake defin ... Show More
11m 50s