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Apr 30
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Reclaiming Joy in Teaching: Rejecting To...

Jen Rafferty
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Finding sustainable joy in teaching begins by rejecting toxic positivity and embracing emotional literacy. Teaching with emotional honesty fosters deeper connections and authentic classroom experiences without sacrificing professionalism.

  • Toxic positivity denies real emotional experiences and keeps educators stuck in stress cycles.
  • Emotional literacy is about recognizing, feeling, and honoring emotions in real time without judgment.
  • Processing emotions is a powerful way to relieve stress and lighten the load on your nervous system.
  • Many educators wear an "emotional uniform" — forced smiles and controlled voices — that hinder real connection.
  • Taking off this emotional uniform doesn’t mean oversharing; it’s about being honest with yourself first.
  • True happiness is a practice, not a mask; it's a muscle that strengthens over time.
  • Classroom breakthroughs happen when teachers show their authentic selves, allowing students to connect with their humanity.
  • Joy comes from embracing all emotions, not from pushing away the difficult ones.

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Stay empowered,
Jen


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