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Mar 2025
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S2 EP2 | Life Isn’t Fair – And That’s Ok...

The Messy Podcast
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Welcome to Season 2, Episode 1 of The Messy Podcast!

Tagline: Why the Right Decision Feels Wrong

In this episode, we explore why trusting your intuition often feels uncomfortable, the link between people-pleasing and self-betrayal, and how to act on your needs despite others’ disapproval.

  • Understand why trusting your intuition can feel uncomfortable due to the neuroscience of doubt.

  • Discover how people-pleasing leads to self-betrayal.

  • Learn to act on your needs despite others’ disapproval.

  • Action Step: Identify one decision you’ve delayed due to fear of judgment. This week, say Let Them _______, then Let Me _______.

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