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Mar 2025
15m 12s

(Matt Monday): Stop Chasing Your ‘Type’ ...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
About this episode

You may have an idea of your perfect partner—the person who feels like the missing piece you’ve been searching for. When you finally meet someone who appears to tick all your boxes, you tell yourself, “This is it—the search is over!” 

But is that really what makes someone right for you? What if that person rejects you? In this episode, I show the TRUTH about compatibility in a relationship and what really makes someone “The One,” so that you never obsess over the wrong person again. 

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