With so much focus on the early stages of dating, we're often so focused on the lies we've been told about falling in love that we miss the bigger picture. Join us as we decipher fantasy from reality as we explore the idea of finding the ideal type of partner and what it takes to build an actual relationship. We discuss why the whole concept of "finding love ... Show More
Yesterday
Quickie w/Yue: What I Learned When I Stopped Being Proud of Being Intimidating
With the throwback to 2016 trend, Yue reflected back to what she was like during that time when dating. As someone who was often told she was "intimidating", she shares how she used to view this as a badge of honor and as a way to attract men, but now realizes it was code for bei ... Show More
11m 4s
Jan 18
Quickie w/ Julie: What Relational Intelligence Looks Like In Early Dating
We talk about the need for emotional intelligence all the time, but what about relational intelligence? In many ways, it's as important or if not more! In today's episode, Julie's taking about the 5 stages of Relational Intelligence and how to put them into motion when applied to ... Show More
9m 54s
Aug 2025
212. the TRUTH about rushing marriage, "biological clocks" & feeling behind in life ⏰
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we talk about the pressure to marry young, the myths around biological clocks, and what it really means when you feel like you're falling behind in life. We'll unpack how much of this pressure comes from society versus your own timeline and why w ... Show More
41m 18s
Oct 5
218. 10 hard TRUTHS about healthy relationships that will help you GROW 🤍 lessons in secure, REAL love 🙏🏼
Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will ... Show More
45m 19s
Apr 2025
#931 - Arthur Brooks - Harvard Professor Reveals The Secret To Lasting Love & Happiness
Arthur Brooks is a social scientist, professor at Harvard University, and an author. Can romance and love be decoded? From falling in and out of love to finding “the one,” what does the science say about what makes someone a good partner, best friend, and lifelong companion? Expe ... Show More
2h 2m
Oct 1
S16 Ep277: Are Your PREFERENCES Keeping You Single?
Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, routines, or lifestyle—can make dating harder, especially as we get older, and share honest stories of what healthy (and not-so-hea ... Show More
43m 59s
Jan 2025
Why Dating Feels IMPOSSIBLE: Physical Attraction, Can’t Commit & Why You’re Single! Kait and JJ
On today’s episode we have Christian dating coaches, Kait and JJ, on to discuss the downfall of men in our society, does attraction in relationships matter, why is divorce on the rise, and what Does God want for godly relationships? Thanks for listening! We’ll see you back here F ... Show More
1h 6m
Aug 2025
#983 - Gay Hendricks - Deeply Connected Relationships
Gay Hendricks is a psychologist, teacher, and an author renowned for his work on relationship transformation. Conscious loving is about more than just romance, it’s about clarity, commitment, and growth. With endless advice on the internet on how to optimize your love life, what ... Show More
1h 32m