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Jan 2025
23m 20s

Why You Should Stop Dating to Find Love

Christian Bevere
About this episode

Does dating today feel like a headache trying to figure out what stage your relationship is in or how long you should date? Even as Christians, we can get lost in the nuances of modern dating and find ourselves confused and frustrated. How can we get back to that old-school love? You know when courting was intentional and clear?
Here's my suggestion: get rid of dating! Let me explain why....

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Connect with Christian or find her new book "Break Up with What Broke You" at ChristianBevere.com

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