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Mar 2025
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How to Stop the Need for Approval from O...

Dr. Patrick Cohn
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How to Stop the Need for Approval from Others | Tennis Psychology Podcast

In this episode, we discuss tennis players who worry too much about what coaches and others think and how this affects performance.

In the Tennis Psychology Podcast, mental performance coaches Dr. Patrick Cohn and Jaclyn Ellis discuss unique challenges for tennis players and how to improve your mindset for tennis.

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