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Mar 2025
27m 58s

Never put your faith in anyone who makes...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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People who care about you should lift you up, not kick you when you're down. If someone keeps dragging you lower, trusting their words is like giving a vampire the keys to the blood bank. 
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