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Nov 2020
12m 49s

Stop Seeking Approval From Others

Lavinia
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It’s harder to love yourself when you seek the approval of those around you instead of trusting yourself or compare yourself to them instead of believing in yourself. Today, we’ll look at approval-seeking behaviours.

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