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Jan 2025
42m 52s

Ask the Dating Coach: ‘HELP! She Wants M...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.

Highlights from this episode:

01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”

03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward

08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”

11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth

13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend

24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”

25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women

31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates

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