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Sep 30
1h 11m

From Playdates to First Dates: The Singl...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Online dating is tough for most men. But when you’re a single dad, it’s hard to find the energy and motivation. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Zach—a single dad re-entering the dating world—improve both his online dating profile and his mindset. Don’t miss Zach’s breakthrough moment (at the 42-minute mark) when he realizes the real reason he’s not meeting the kinds of women he’s into. Listen now!

Episode Highlights:

13:36: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Women Laughing and Writing You Back

26:02: How to Navigate Your Busy Schedule and Still Get Dates

43:10: Zach’s “Aha!” Moment: “This is Why I Haven’t Had more Dates!”

59:25: Zach Unlocks the Power of Fearless Flirting

1:08:09: The Secret to Motivation, Action… and a Date by this Weekend

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