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Mar 2025
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How Surrender and Polarity Create the Ho...

Layla Martin
About this episode

Shownotes

 

  • What people misunderstand about the feminine

  • How to surrender into letting life be good

  • What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership

  • Why men are attracted to different life force energies in women

  • Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion

  • What it truly means for a man to be present sexually

  • How submission is different than surrender

 

Bio

 

Nina Lombardo is a teacher and mentor for women, specializing in conscious intimacy, polarity and sacred feminine practice. She supports women and couples in embodying their deepest spiritual-sexual expressions, allowing them to experience the union they crave with life, their lovers and the divine. The depth of her work is informed through her devotion to her inner practice, over 15 years of training and studies in the realms of healing, embodiment, feminine spirituality and sacred sexuality, her long-term intimate partnership and more than a decade of facilitating thousands of one-on-one client sessions, in-person retreats and online programs.

 

Learn more about Nina’s powerful work at her website.

 

Timestamps

 

00:01:08 - Introduction

00:02:34 - What people misunderstand about the feminine

00:05:54 - How do I show up when life is pulsating through me?

00:08:47 - The beauty of connecting to your feminine essence on a deeper level

00:10:51 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:11:29 - What exactly is surrender?

00:14:40 - How to surrender into letting life be good

00:17:12 - What sexual surrender looks like in a partnership

00:21:15 - Manifest your deepest desires using my free Sex Magic Practice

00:23:58 - Men are attracted to different life force energies in women

00:25:18 - Keys to navigating your partner’s triggers with compassion

00:32:42 - All humans thrive in appreciation

00:34:18 - Unlock outrageous pleasure and self-love inside Crystal Pleasure 

00:36:55 - How do you transform tension into surrender during sex?

00:40:05 - What it truly means for a man to be present sexually

00:43:37 - Nina and Layla drink MOOD SEX MAGIC™

00:49:16 - How to experience longing as the fullness of life

00:53:10 - Unlock your deepest passion inside The Tantric Mastermind for Couples

00:54:01 - How submission is different than surrender

00:57:17 - The difference between active submission and passive submission

00:58:47 - Nina shares a practice for single women to soften into their pleasure

00:59:19 - Nina shares a practice for couples to intentionally cultivate polarity and deeper intimacy

1:00:00 - Conclusion

 

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