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Feb 2025
28m 24s

Parenting on Empty

DR. BECKY KENNEDY
About this episode

Parenting is exhausting. The number of things you have to do to manage it all can feel relentless and nonstop. And no, you're not doing anything wrong. Many parents feel this way. Today on the show, Dr. Becky tackles parental burnout, what you can do to take care of yourself, and how to bring some fun back into your life. 

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