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Feb 2025
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138 - How To Speak Naturally, Not In 'Pr...

Cat Matson
About this episode

In this episode of Speaking with Confidence I’m answering a community question:


How do I show up more naturally and not in ‘presentation mode’? And, how do I allow the passion I feel about my business and my work shine through?”


I love this question, because I’m all about authenticity - in a world of AI generated content, AUTHENTICITY is what will help you stand out and connect with your audience.


Listen in to hear

  • How ‘presentation mode’ can create a disconnect with your audience
  • How authenticity can lead to more impactful communication
  • Why it’s perfectly acceptable, in fact, desirable, to express your passion and enthusiasm, even in professional settings
  • How sharing your personal stories, and why you do what you do, can enhance your message
  • How you can show up authentically instead of in ‘presentation mode’


Other episodes mentioned


60 - Authenticity, Misery P*rn & Stories of Happiness

100 - The Power of Stories in Driving Community Impact


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