logo
episode-header-image
Jul 2024
12m 14s

How to Have a Difficult Conversation

Civility Media
About this episode
Need to have a difficult conversation, but you're not sure what to say or how to say it? In this episode, I’m revealing 3 simple steps to confidently approach your next hard conversation. I'll guide you through the exact words to use, how to maintain your composure, and make sure your message is heard. Plus, I share several phrases you must avoid to keep ... Show More
Up next
Apr 28
Why You Overthink Every Conversation After It Ends ft. Shadé Zahrai
There’s a voice in your head—and it’s shaping more of your life than you realize. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Shadé Zahrai to break down the real science behind self-doubt, where it comes from, and why it shows up strongest after your conversations—not before them. We wa ... Show More
1h 5m
Apr 21
3 Ways You’re Weakening Your Message Without Knowing It
Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ There are three mistakes I see people make in conversations every single day—and they’re quietly destroying relationships without you realizing it. In this episode, I break down w ... Show More
23m 1s
Apr 14
Stop Letting Emotions Make Decisions with Emma Grede
Join me on Supercast for ad-free episodes, bonus content, and AMAs: https://jefferson.supercast.com/ There’s a version of you that keeps waiting—for permission, for clarity, for someone to hand you the opportunity. In this conversation, I sit down with Emma Grede to challenge tha ... Show More
54m 1s
Recommended Episodes
Mar 2019
[222] 3 Easy Techniques To Start A Conversation With Anyone
Today’s episode has been brought to you by my free gift called: “How To Simplify A Conversation”. You can grab it at englishmadesimple.net/convo. In today's episode, I share 3 tips on how you can engage in a conversation with anybody. I share my personal examples when trying to ... Show More
12m 11s
Jul 2023
Mastering Difficult Conversations at Work with Darlene Hawley
Join us as we unlock the secrets to address difficult conversations. Discover practical tips for effective communication, conflict resolution, and mentorship. Learn how to approach sensitive discussions with empathy, maintain authenticity throughout, and foster understanding even ... Show More
28m 56s
Sep 2025
#457 - What to Say After "HOW ARE YOU" in English — How to Talk to Anyone and Keep the Conversation Flowing
Listen with FREE Interactive Transcript only on the RealLife App. Do you ever get stuck after saying "Hi! How are you?" In this episode, Izzy shares a simple, step-by-step guide to keep any conversation flowing naturally. You'll learn how to go beyond small talk, avoid awkward si ... Show More
22m 27s
Jun 2025
"Why won't he just listen?" Is The Wrong Question
tail spinning
13m 28s
Feb 2025
How To Handle Difficult People & Take Back Your Peace and Power
<p>Today, you are getting research-backed strategies for handling difficult people. </p><p>In this episode, you will dive deep into how to respond to disrespect, gaslighting, and exactly what to say when someone tries to brush off their behavior with, “I was just joking.” </p><p> ... Show More
50m 21s
Aug 2021
[067] How to Be Assertive On-the-Spot
How can you be assertive on-the-spot? Being assertive when you need to and on-the-spot can be challenging, especially if you’re coming from a more passive style of communication.It can be really difficult to think of how to respond assertively to a negative comment, in the moment ... Show More
23m 17s
Aug 2025
[339] How to Ask for Help at Work (Without Feeling Embarrassed)
In this episode, I talk about how to ask for help at work in English - without feeling embarrassed or unprofessional. I’ll share some useful workplace phrases you can use right away, plus a cheeky story about asking for help with the office printer. By the end, you’ll know how to ... Show More
6m 29s
Sep 2025
107: Keep the Conversation Flowing with the “Yes, And…” Rule
In this episode of The Pronunciation Pro Podcast, Annie introduces a powerful communication tool that will help you engage more naturally and confidently in English conversations: the “Yes, and…” rule.Commonly used in improv comedy, this simple technique can transform your everyd ... Show More
21m 28s
Sep 2025
How to have difficult conversation with a partner that easily shuts down or gets defensive?
Do you find yourself dreading hard conversations with your partner because they either shut down, get defensive, or turn it back on you? You’re definitely not alone!In this episode, I’ll break down why some partners withdraw, stonewall, or get reactive in conflict - and how it’s ... Show More
55m 28s