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Feb 2025
53m 12s

Dating Apps, Red Flags & Bad Habits w/ L...

Dr. Emily Morse
About this episode

Logan Ury, the author of How to Not Die Alone and director of Relationship Science at Hinge, joins me to share her best tips for all things dating. Logan provides practical tips for avoiding dating blindspots, the drawbacks of unrealistic expectations, and algorithms to live by for finding a satisfying relationship. 

We discuss how ‘dealbreakers’ may be an excuse for avoiding connection, how attachment styles affect our dating outcomes, the paradox of choice in the dating world, and how to get out of the checklist mindset. She also breaks down the most common dating tendencies, shares strategies behind making the best decisions, explains why ‘the spark’ may be B.S., and even offers how-to advice for creating a powerful dating profile. Even if you’re not dating, you will learn techniques that will strengthen all your relationships.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why the spark is total BS—and what actually makes a relationship last
  • How your dating type (romanticizer, maximizer, or hesitator) is messing with your love life
  • The secret to making better choices in dating—so you can finally find your person


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