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Feb 2025
13m 30s

Were You an Orphan WITH Parents?

Teal Swan
About this episode

If you’ve ever struggled to understand why you feel the way you do, THIS may be the missing link:

Just because you had parents and lived under their roof doesn’t mean they truly parented you. Many children grow up physically provided for but emotionally abandoned—orphans with parents.

In this video, Teal exposes the gaslighting that hides this reality, breaks down the unmet needs that shape a child's development, and explores how these missing pieces impact adulthood.

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