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May 17
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Gabby Bernstein: Work With Your Inner Ch...

Lewis Howes
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Gabby Bernstein opens up about the profound impact of childhood trauma and how unprocessed experiences create fragmented parts of ourselves that become stuck in time. Drawing from her personal journey of sexual abuse and dissociation, she explains how these early protective mechanisms—whether through dissociation, addiction, or self-destructive behaviors—were once necessary survival strategies that now manifest as adult struggles. Her vulnerable conversation sheds light on why many people find themselves repeating patterns they intellectually know are harmful, yet emotionally cannot seem to overcome.

This episode delves into the revolutionary understanding that our most challenging behaviors aren't character flaws but rather expressions of wounded inner children who never received the support they needed. Bernstein shares insights on identifying these younger parts of ourselves and offers a compassionate framework for healing that doesn't require perfect parenting in childhood. Her approach combines psychological understanding with practical tools for reconnecting with and nurturing these fragmented aspects of self, creating a powerful roadmap for anyone looking to break free from limiting patterns and reclaim their wholeness.

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