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Feb 2025
27m 36s

Ep. 276 - If you think your ex’s new par...

Breakup Coach Dorothy
About this episode

Seeing your ex with someone new can feel like a punch to the gut—especially if you believe their new partner is somehow "better" than you. In this episode, I break down exactly why that feeling of jealousy takes over and how to take your power back. I'll walk you through three key steps to stop obsessing over your ex's new relationship and start feeling motivated to build the life you actually want. If you’re tired of comparing yourself, stuck in self-doubt, or feeling like you’ll never measure up, this episode will give you the mindset shifts and tools to move forward with confidence—regardless of what your ex is doing. Click play to get started!

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