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Feb 2025
57m 43s

Episode 285: Time is Currency

Lesbian Chronicles
About this episode
Alli and Melisa discuss questions you should ask yourself about your relationship... 
  1. If someone said, "You're just like your partner," would that feel like a compliment?
  2. Are you truly fulfilled by this relationship or just less lonely? 
  3. Can you unapologetically be yourself? 
  4. Are you in love with who they are right now? Or the potential of who they could eventually become? 
  5. Would you choose a relationship like this for your child as an adult?
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