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Jan 2025
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S2 EP8 | How to Make Comparison Your Tea...

The Messy Podcast
About this episode

Welcome to Season 2, Episode 8 of The Messy Podcast!

In this episode, we dive into The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins, a powerful concept that teaches you how to stop comparing yourself to others and start achieving your goals. Instead of letting jealousy or feelings of inadequacy hold you back, this theory shows you how to use the success of others as motivation to fuel your own journey. Learn how to take control and move forward with purpose.

If you're ready to stop comparing and start doing, grab your copy of The Let Them Theory today: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h. For exclusive content and to support The Messy Podcast, visit us at https://themessypodcast.com.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

  • Identify Areas for Growth: Discover how to pinpoint the parts of your life that need more attention and focus, instead of spreading yourself thin.
  • Turn Inspiration into Action: Learn how to use the success of others to spark your own drive and channel that energy into consistent effort.
  • Focus on What You Can Control: Understand the power of focusing on your own actions, rather than comparing your journey to someone else's.

The Let Them Theory

This episode will show you how to overcome feelings of jealousy and inadequacy by shifting your mindset. By focusing on what you can control and putting in the work consistently, you can start achieving your goals and living the life you deserve.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to stop comparing yourself to others and use their success as fuel for your own growth.
  • How to identify the areas in your life that need more focus and attention to start making real progress.
  • The importance of consistency and focusing on what you can control to achieve your goals.

Ready to Get Unstuck and Achieve Your Goals?

Start today by grabbing your copy of The Let Them Theory and transform your mindset: https://amzn.to/3PTCK6h.

For more transformative content and to support The Messy Podcast, become a member at https://themessypodcast.com. We’ve got episodes on top books, Netflix series, and inspiring biographies you won’t want to miss!


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