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Jan 2025
43m 43s

How to parent yourself first and break u...

CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
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Send us Fan Mail This episode explores the profound impact of childhood experiences on parenting styles, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and emotional healing. Brianna shares insights on building connections with children through understanding and compassion while setting healthy boundaries. • Understanding how childhood wounds manifest in pa ... Show More
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