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Jan 2025
58m 52s

Letting Go: Rumination, Breakups, and Ho...

RICK HANSON, PH.D., FORREST HANSON
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Forrest and Dr. Rick focus on one of life's most challenging but essential skills - letting go. Whether you're trying to break free from repetitive thoughts, move on from a relationship, or change an old pattern of behavior, this episode will help you learn how to release what no longer serves you.  They start by exploring why letting go is so difficult, the ... Show More
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