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Feb 2025
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Office Hours Amy Nobile Messing Takes Us...

Tinx
About this episode

This week holistic dating coach, Amy Nobile Messing takes us on a guided tour of all the good and bad of dating.  We get some hard truths about chemistry, second dates, and what to shut about early on in the process.  Then in a moment of vulnerability I open up my phone and hand over my dating profile to Amy, so she can give you a live play by play of what I myself am doing wrong.

This episode is perfectly timed for V-Day, as all of us single out there need a reminder that the dating scene is scary, but it doesn't mean we should be down on ourselves!

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