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Jan 2025
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When To Leave An Avoidant...

Thais Gibson | YAP Media
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Are you questioning whether to continue investing in a relationship with an avoidant partner? Learn the three essential steps to evaluate your situation and make the best decision for your happiness and growth.


In today’s episode, Thais Gibson outlines a step-by-step approach to help you decide whether to stay with or leave an avoidant partner. By setting clear boundaries, focusing on personal growth, and assessing the other person’s willingness to grow, you’ll gain clarity and confidence in your decision. Listen now to discover actionable tools for navigating challenging dynamics and fostering healthier relationships.


Timestamps

00:00:00 – Should You Stay or Leave?

00:00:47 – Signs of Losing Yourself in the Relationship

00:01:12 – The Three-Step Process for Decision-Making

00:02:45 – Key Question: Are They Willing to Do the Work?

00:05:08 – Setting Deadlines for Relationship Investment

00:07:30 – The Importance of Personal Growth During Evaluation

00:09:20 – Recognizing When the Needle Isn’t Moving

00:11:45 – Clarity and Confidence in Your Decision

00:13:50 – Evaluating Healthy Relationship Reciprocity

00:15:00 – Tools to Heal and Rebuild Self-Worth

00:17:45 – Final Thoughts: Leading by Example


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