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Jan 2025
37m 12s

are u trash for canceling plans? (full e...

Bobo, Donavon and Mango
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Episode Summary:

Picture this: You’ve spent hours cleaning your place, cooking food, and setting up a dinner table with the cute little candles and the tablecloth u got from the vintage store in paris, only to get that dreaded text "Hey, so sorry, I’m not going to make it tonight." Or worse, no text at all.


Welcome to the era of canceled plans, where ‘yes’ doesn’t mean yes, ‘maybe’ rarely leads to ‘I’m in,’ and commitment is apparently a burden that no one owes to anyone?


But why? Why are we so quick to bail on each other? Is it because we’re all secretly drowning in social anxiety? Is it because everyone feels so unimportant that canceling is nbd? Is it because ur therapist convinced u to cancel plans to "protect ur peace"? Or is it something deeper: A symptom of a culture that’s lost its sense of obligation, where relationships feel more disposable than ever?


are u plan canceler or are u a good person? lmao let us know in the comments down below!

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