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Feb 2025
53m 9s

Are You Guilty Of "Someday Syndrome"?

BRITTANY HOCKLEY AND LAURA BYRNE
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Hey Lifers!
Captain Keeshia is filling in for Britt today as she is busy carving up the dance floor at Dancing With The Stars! Laura thought they were going to have a comparable experiences but now she feels gaslit by Britt.
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If you get given a scratchie by someone as a present, is there an expectation if you win that you will split the winnings with the person who has given you the scratchie?
Laura shares a story about a family feud that lasted decades.

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How would you feel if you found out that the person you were newly dating had hooked up with an acquaintance of yours within the week that you met? Would you not care at all or would it make you question whether they were 'ready' for a proper commitment? It's a situation that's playing out on Love Is Blind and we asked whether it's different because it's reality TV or if we would react in the same way.

Are you guilty of 'Someday Syndrome'?
Are you deferring life goals or things that you want in your life to 'someday' down the track?
We unpack the excuse trap, the right time and the fear of failure.
Laura questions whether deferring goals is always a bad thing or whether it's more about prioritisation and inherent sacrifice. Keeshia questions whether it's the 'goal' or the feeling that the goal brings us that we actually want.

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