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Jan 2025
11m 8s

The Happiness Paradox

Scott Lynch
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We’ve all been there — chasing happiness, thinking it’s just one more thing away. What if the more we chase happiness, the further it slips away? In this episode, I dive into the "Backwards Law" by Alan Watts and explore how our constant striving for happiness might be the very thing that prevents us from finding it. 
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