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Jan 2025
51m 11s

He said “New Year, New Me, No Thank You!...

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About this episode

2025 is picking up the pace, as Ryan reveals the insane challenge he’s embarking on in January…


They discuss Ryan’s upcoming ultra marathon in the desert (and all the different ways you need to protect your bits), Louise’s incredible turnout at a school sports day only a few months after surgery and how she’s slowly repairing her relationship with exercise. 


Plus, a listener writes in with a dilemma about weaponised incompetence – so how do you deal with a partner who has to be told what to do? 


Send your voice memos or stories to hesaidshesaid@astridpodcasts.co.uk for Louise and Ryan to address your dilemma on the show.


Follow @hesaid.shesaid.podcast, @louise.thompson and @ryan.libbey


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Artwork by @brittyflynn 

Production by Astrid



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