In this episode, Jillian dives even deeper into the world of red and green flags and highlights ones that people should never ignore. She uncovers some surprising red flags that might have more to do with you than your partner, and the most important green flags that are the greatest predictors of longevity and health in a relationship.
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Mar 2
Why Your Relationship Feels Harder Than It Should
The biggest threat to your relationship might not be your communication — it might be the story you’re telling yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores how negative narratives, overthinking, and fear-based assumptions quietly turn partners into enemies and create resentment wh ... Show More
30m 57s
Feb 23
How To Heal Low Self-Worth and Anxious Attachment
What if the story you’ve been telling yourself — that you’re “too much,” too sensitive, or too difficult — was never actually true? In this listener call, Jillian helps a woman unpack a lifelong belief that she’s “too much” and shows how that story can follow you into adulthood—e ... Show More
1h 34m
Feb 16
Why You Don’t Have to Forgive Them with Dr. Ellen Langer
Jillian is joined by Harvard psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer, the pioneer of mindfulness research, for a conversation that challenges everything you think you know about stress, healing, and being present. Dr. Langer explains why mindfulness isn’t about meditation—it’s about notici ... Show More
1h 20m
Feb 2023
EP22: Red Flags That Look Like Green Flags
<p>This week, Sarah starts this one off with a personal relationship question for Therapy Jeff, and he really flips it on her. Then they get into the heart of the episode, red flags that look like green flags. It might seem pretty obvious, but so many of our favorite love stories ... Show More
56m 56s
Oct 2025
Listen to This If You’re Craving A Deeper Relationship with Yourself, Featuring Self-Connection Specialist Jacq Gould
<p>The most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself. Self-connection specialist and founder of Your Inner Babe, Jacq Gould, joins Vic for a powerful conversation on building inner trust, finding light in dark seasons, and embracing change. Jacq opens up a ... Show More
50m 56s
Oct 2025
205. Truths About Love We Don't Like Hearing (But Need To) w/ Jillian Turecki
In this episode, I sit down with author and relationship coach Jillian Turecki to talk about the hard truths of love, why it really begins with you, and what changes when you stop outsourcing certainty and start meeting your own needs. We get into the “six human needs” as a simpl ... Show More
45m 54s