In this episode, I discuss behavioural patterns and why you might be going back to the people or things you already know aren’t right for you.
Sep 2023
You've Seen What You Needed to See
In this episode, I talk about how what we need to see about a person or situation is usually shown to us, we just need to let ourselves accept it. If you like my thoughts and insights follow me on my socials below for more! To be clear, I am not a therapist! I am just very intere ... Show More
12m 27s
Mar 2024
How to Speak Up, Leave the Toxic Relationship, and Actually Save Yourself | Najwa Zebian PT 2
Welcome back to part 2 of this aaaaamazing conversation with my homie Najwa Zebian, the QUEEN of healing and embracing change.
And if you thought part 1 of this convo was powerful, get ready cause we’re going even deeper into understanding WHY choosing to leave a toxic guy is SO ... Show More
57m 48s
Nov 5
You’re Not Too Far Gone for God to Find You
<div>Maybe you’ve had a season where you didn’t even try to pray because you thought, “Why would God listen to me after everything I’ve done?” I’ve been there. I’ve tried to hide behind busyness, perfection, even faith that looked fine on the outside, but inside, I felt lost.<br> ... Show More
13m 36s
Sep 8
OVERCOMING YOUR EGO AND HOW TO BE A MORE ENJOYABLE PERSON
<div>it's me.....hi......I'm the problem....it's me 😮💨 In this episode, we're talking about why needing to be right, acting superior, taking things too personally, and being too self absorbed makes us harder to be around. I share ways to let go of these habits that push people ... Show More
29m 38s
Nov 11
Why We Spend When We’re Sad: Turning Emotional Purchases Into Purpose
We don’t always spend because we’re “bad with money.” We spend because we’re human — grieving, stressed, lonely, or trying to feel in control. In this episode, Shari breaks down emotional spending as a signal, not a flaw, and shows you how to start asking the one question that ch ... Show More
26m 46s
Feb 2025
Why I’m Done with Self-Improvement
This episode idea started as a joke. But the more I talked about it, the more I realized I do actually want to take a break from self-improvement — a journey I’ve been on for nearly 20 years. Before you judge me, or dismiss me, hear me out. In today’s episode I’ll talk about w ... Show More
22m 14s
Oct 2024
22. the art of detachment (let go or be dragged)
Welcome back to another episode of It Girl Playbook! In today's episode, we're going to talk about the powerful concept of detachment. If you're struggling with letting go of control, whether it's in your personal life, career, or relationships, this episode is tailor made for yo ... Show More
7m 34s
Feb 2025
LET GO OR BE DRAGGED - letting go of what no longer serves you
If you’re stuck in a situation that you’re unhappy in or you want to make a change but you’re scared, this episode is a reminder that NOTHING HAPPENS IF NOTHING HAPPENS. If you want your life to change, you need to make the necessary changes. In this episode, I talk about letting ... Show More
33m 29s