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Aug 2021
18m 55s

318 - If they're not interested, I'm not...

CASE KENNY
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In this episode, I talk about chasing unavailable or uninterested people. I talk about WHY we do this and how to stop by breaking down two truths about relationships. Get "The New Mindset Journal", "Single is your Superpower"  and "UNBOTHERED" (https://newmindsetwhodis.com/) Listen to ZEN DISCO: https://www.mixcloud.com/CaseKenny/ Follow me on Instagram: @c ... Show More
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