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Jun 4
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7 Stages of Gay Relationships ❤️ Sex, Lo...

Joel Wood & Keegan Hirst
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From first flings to forever love - what really happens in queer relationships? In this episode, we’re joined by a sex and relationships therapist, Tom Bruett LMFT, who specialises in working with the LGBTQ+ community to unpack the 7 key stages many queer couples go through.


We talk about navigating hookups, emotional intimacy, communication struggles, sex ruts, healing past trauma, and building lasting connection — all through a queer-affirming lens. Whether you're single, dating, or deeply partnered, this one’s for you.


Expect honest chat, expert advice, and plenty of “ah-ha” moments.


Tom's website: https://tombruetttherapy.com/

Tom's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queerrelationshipinstitute/


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